What's the right age for a first smartphone?
The smartphone has become an integral part of everyday life, even for the very young. In Switzerland, 50% of 10-year-olds already own their own cell phone. But this statistical benchmark does not guarantee that this is the ideal age. So, when is it really time to take the plunge? What criteria should you take into account before entrusting your child with a smartphone? Let's find out.
An ideal age? No single answer
Every child is different, and there's no universally recommended age for receiving a first smartphone. This choice is mainly based on two factors:
- The child's level of maturity: is he or she capable of managing screen time, understanding the risks of digital technology and applying the rules set?
- The real need: is the phone really necessary for safety or communication reasons, or is it simply a desire to belong to a group?
Before making a decision, it's important for parents to assess the motivations behind the purchase of a phone.
Why give your child a smartphone?
Before giving in to your child's insistent demands, take the time to analyze your reasons for giving him or her a cell phone.
- To ensure your safety? A smartphone isn't always essential. Good organization and fluid communication with the adults around him may suffice. A phone without Internet access can also be an alternative.
- To facilitate communication? If your child is regularly out and about on his own, a telephone may be useful. But once again, a basic model may suffice.
- Following the trend? Social pressure can be strong at school. However, offering a smartphone just because "everyone else has one" is not a good enough reason.
- Because brothers and sisters have one? If a family balance is necessary, it's essential to establish clear rules so that everyone uses their phone responsibly.
Parents play a key role in digital learning
We often wonder whether children are ready to have a smartphone... But what about parents? Are you ready to accompany your child in this new responsibility?
- Understanding digital usage: Parents need to be able to explain how smartphones work, what good practices are, and what the risks are (cyberbullying, addiction, inappropriate content).
- Supervision and support: Offering a smartphone does not mean giving unlimited access. It's crucial to set rules for use, to control certain applications and to discuss usage with your child on a regular basis.
- Set up a user charter : Drawing up a signed charter together clarifies mutual commitments. It can include :
- Respect for family rules (screen time, hours of use)
- Authorized activities
- Maintaining outdoor activities and social interactions off-screen
A smartphone, a tool with multiple opportunities
Although cell phones are often perceived as a potential danger, they also offer a number of advantages when properly managed:
- Access to information and education
- A means of communication with family and friends
- An introduction to responsible digital use
The important thing is to support your child in this learning process, by establishing a clear and caring framework.
Conclusion: at what age should you buy a smartphone?
There's no magic age for giving the gift of a first smartphone. Each child evolves at his or her own pace. The key lies in assessing their maturity, the family context and the parents' ability to supervise their use. Before buying a phone, take the time to ask the right questions and set up a structured educational framework.
To find out more :
- Book recommendation: "Les écrans, je gère!", Niels Weber, Éditions Magenta, 2023
- Useful resources: www.jeunesetmedias.ch